Oct 10, 2014

Homecoming Dress Fix

So, I've been away for awhile.  I'm not really sure where, seems life just caught me up in it's swift moving currents and now we have washed ashore into October.  I've done a few little creative projects here and there and thought it might be time to check back in and share.

Up first is the Homecoming dress fix.  This cute girl of mine decided last minute, and by last minute I mean the night before, to go to her Homecoming dance.  That was on a Friday, the dance was Saturday.  This is all great and everything BUT she didn't have a dress!

So, in between some already scheduled events on Saturday afternoon we hit a store, bought a $30 dress that was cute but, meh - it was lacking, and we dressed it up a bit.

We wanted to make it better and a little more modest.  Granted, compared to some dresses we looked at, this one was pretty conservative.  Still though, a little more length and a little more coverage on the shoulders was desired.

Here's the before....

It really was pretty cute.  She didn't think she would like it but when she tried it on, she loved it.  It had a Aubrey Hepburn feel to it in some way and Miss M has always had more of a classic style so it fit her own personality really well.  We still needed to make it better though.

On the way home we hit JoAnn's and found this stunning trim. I loved that the edges were all finished as I knew that would help make my job so much easier.  And, it had to be EASY because I only had an hour to make it work.  


And here's the AFTER...

I took that trim and made a little cap sleeve to cover the shoulders and I took the rest and attached it to the bottom to give it more length.

The thing that surprised me most is how much classier the modified dress looked.  Let's be honest here, sometimes when you make clothes more modest, it makes them look, ummm, well, I'm not even sure of the right word, usually though, it's just not a good out come.  This dress though, in my own opinion, actually looks better with the add-ons.

Once it was all done, I had a happy girl on my hands.  She loved it and felt beautiful.  I could tell from the smile.  Plus, it spins - how can you not love a dress that you can spin in.

The highlight of the night though didn't come from the smile or the spin, it came while I was quickly trying to sew things in place and she leaned into me and whispered "Thanks mom!".  Melted my heart!


In other news, we've been hit with some not so great news.  Our home was just sold so we are moving.  We have no idea to where, we just know we have to leave.  So, I have closed the Etsy shop down for the time being and I am not taking ornament orders until we find a new place and are settled.  Thank you for understanding.


Aug 31, 2014

DIY $16 Tulle Skirt

Miss M had the bright idea that she wanted to make a skirt.  I've been her mom for long enough that I should know "I want to make a skirt" really means " I want YOU to make me a skirt".  Seems I never learn, or maybe I do because this time it really was a collaborated effort.

She pinned a tutorial she liked from Pinterest.  She wanted fun and flirty but still classy and modest.  I think we hit the mark.

We journeyed to the fabric store, cashed in our coupons and walked out with 7 yards of tulle, a lining fabric, and elastic.

When we got home we had to do the math .... it wasn't hard math but it was math.  Being that I'm a visual learner, and calculations aren't my thing, that was the hardest part.  She made the pattern and then did all the cutting.  I supported her by posting the above photo on Instagram.

Now, lest you think that's all I did, I eventually did help her sew.  I gathered the tulle for her and attached all the layers to the elastic waist.

It did take us probably longer than it should have but that's mostly because we aren't experienced seamstresses and we are easily distracted BUT we did it, and I must say, it wasn't too hard.  So, if we can do it, you can too.

If you are interested, the pattern and directions we followed came from a blog called Everday Reading and the link to the post is here:  http://www.everyday-reading.com/2014/02/an-easy-tulle-skirt-tutorial.html

The grand total for the skirt was $16.  Miss M also spent a whopping $5 for her necklace and we made the belt out of left over ribbon we already had.  So, not bad.  Her new outfit for church cost us $21.

Funny thing happened while we were taking these photos.  We went to the college campus here in town and this guy, from a distance rides by on his bike and yells "You got it goin' on girl!"  Totally cracked us up.  And after we stopped laughing my Miss M she says to me, "well, the boys at church and school don't think much of me but the college boys do!"

And then we laughed again. (No wonder she's so excited for college next year.)

As a mom I probably should have been like, "she's too young for you" but really, he gave her a compliment that see needed to hear.  So, thanks random guy on a bike!  

Aug 28, 2014

DIY Phone Stand

Last spring we took the plunge and upgraded my whole crew to new phones.  We've been very happy with the decision with one exception.  The phone cases we got.  The girls all wanted cases with stand built in.  In theory I think it's a great idea but in practicality, well, not so much.  All the stands snapped off or broke within just a week.

I didn't have a stand on my phone case. Which, after seeing what happened to theirs, I was glad I didn't. However, I use my phone for music, tv shows, and for watching movies all the time and I found myself having to be creative in ways to prop it up.  And, since I've been working on the computer a lot lately doing photo edits and I have my phone near by, I really wanted something other than a pile of CD's and book to hold my phone up.

Luckily while roaming the aisles at Walmart I found the perfect, and probably cheapest, solution ever. Yes, I could spend $14.99+  for a phone stand/charger or I could pay $0.97 for a super cute little easel.

Ya, it doesn't take much to figure out which option I went for.

Only, I went overboard and I now have four of them.  Yep!  I'm a big spender like that. Having four means I can leave them in the most used places.  Near the computer, by the kitchen sink, on my night stand and in the bathroom.

The easels come in un-treated, un-painted wood which means you can totally get your craft on and go crazy personalizing them.

You can paint them or stain them any color you'd like. You could add rub-ons or decals or you could even leave them plain, but that's kinda boring.

Life is too short for plain. Go for color!

I went to work and painted mine.  No special tricks or instructions here other than be careful not to paint too much where the hinge is or you won't be able to adjust the angle of the easel.

 And, there you go.  You now have the most frugal, but pretty cute, little phone stand ever.  And, unlike the stands in the phone cases we bought, if it does break you aren't out much.  So far though, these little guys have been pretty durable.

Aug 24, 2014

Is It Time?

Is it time?  

Yep, It's time!

Ok, please don't shoot me for this post.  I know, I know.  It's still August.  But, I'm happy to announce that I have re-opened my Etsy shop and you can now order... wait for it..... Christmas ornaments!

Let me explain, I'm not one who enjoys the fact that stores are already putting out Christmas things, like Hobby Lobby, ya!  Full blown Christmas decor aisles already - it's too soon!  I want Fall first.  I know several of my readers are with me on this.  We've had this discussion before.  However, I have had several emails over the last three weeks asking about my ornaments and when I'd be selling them again. 

(I'm so glad you all like them!  Thank you!)

And, since they are custom made, take time, and I got backed up on production last year, I figured offering them early was a good idea.

So, for all you planners out there.  For all you that are on the ball and already Christmas shopping.  Well, this post is for you.

You can see all of the ornaments being offered this year here:  Then She Made Etsy Shop

So, there you have it.  Ornaments are listed.  And, good news, since you've been asking, Robots and flower hair pins are coming.  

Aug 17, 2014

All the Important things

Today I turned old.

Ok, ok, I am not old but sometimes my body feels old.  My mind feels forgetful,  I feel outdated, and I'm more and more stuck in my ways which means I'm becoming stubborn like my grandmas were. I like routine, the spontaneity of my youth has disappeared . I'm not very trusting anymore.  I have gray hairs.  And, I feel like this last year and all that happened, has made me feel older than I should feel.  When your parents die, somehow mortality seems a lot shorter.

However, I also believe that every journey we go on does, eventually, awaken the soul and while this past year was a dark one on my life path, it has ended with bright spots and I do feel like all that has happened has awakened my soul in ways that I didn't expect. My perspective has changed.

One thing that has been on my mind lately is how much I want my girls to know the things that I feel are important in navigating everyday life and difficult times.

Years ago I started a project where I intended to do the same but because I started with the visual, crafty side of it - I never finished.  I'm glad I didn't finish because now I have the opportunity to do it with meaning.

And this time I decided to start with the meat.  The cute patterned paper and scrapbooking layout don't matter so much but the words do.  So, in honor of my Forty + One birthday, here are 41 things I deem important. They are in no particular order and in time I will add the stories behind the statements but for now, it's a start.

1- Have the courage to walk away.  Even from family if needed.

2- Ask questions

3- Friendships are important

4- Spirituality matters, establish a relationship with God.  I've lived parts of my life without that relationship and know that I'm happiest when I work on my faith and live my beliefs.

5- Death happens.  It hurts.  Mourn but then focus on the good memories and not the loss.  And, do not let that loss define you.  See my Heavy Heart and My Story post for more info

6- Maintain a good relationship with your parents.

7- Someone will always be prettier, smarter, taller, and skinnier than you and you will always be prettier, smarter, taller, better than someone else - that’s life but don’t get caught up in the comparisons.  Just love who you are.

8- Think before you spend because things won’t make you happy

9- Say you are sorry

10- Guard your virtue

11- Do nice things for others even if they don’t do nice things back

12- Don’t expect praise or appreciation.  Do what you do because you want to do them and not because of the reward.

13- Look out for the under dog and reach out to them.  They need to be noticed and loved.

14- Smile confidently

15- You will have bad hair days but you will probably be the only one that notices

16- You have divine potential.  Find out what that is and then use it to bless others.

17- When sad, serve others.  Even if it's the most simplest of service acts

18- Say Thank you - ALWAYS say thank you.

19- Be cautious of the need you will have to fit in

20 - If you have children, remember your job is to keep them safe on all levels.  This includes, physically, mentally, spiritually, and with all your might, protect their innocence (this means you may find your self saying no to sleep-overs too)

21- Work to maintain relationships with your siblings

22- Don’t play small, you have talents so use them

23- Give people the benefit of the doubt

24- Create something.  Even if you don't feel like you are an artist, find something to create.  A good meal.  A flower arrangement.  An organized home.  Creating has a power to help you overcome things.  It does.

25- Let light in your life.  Then work to see the light in others and treat them if that is the only thing you see about them.

26- Choose right - even if the right choice is the harder one to make

27- Be willing to open yourself up to new experiences, even if you might fail at them

28- Kindness matters, be kind and make an effort to notice other people's kindness.

29- Do the dishes

30- Happiness is not long term if it comes in the form of a bottle, pill or substance

31- The person you become will always be more important than the grade you earn

32- Pay attention to your surroundings.

33 - Explore.  Even if you feel like being a hermit at home, go explore anyway

34- Take care of your body

35 - God does not take people from this life because he needs them in Heaven.  And despite what people think, that is not a comforting thing to tell someone when they are grieving.  So don't tell people that.

36 - You can do hard things

37- Trust your intuition about others and avoid toxic people

38- Know your past, know the people who came before you and honor their legacies by carrying on their goodness

39- Lock your doors, always!

40- There will be people who won’t like you. It's ok.  It's more important that you like you.

41- Technology is amazing but human connection is more important. walk away from your computer and put your phone away.  There are deep conversations to be had, people to get to know and life to live.

Some of these things I've mastered and are some of them are still things I'm working on but it's a start and I'm excited to start sharing the details of each item with my girls.

There are stories to be told.

What would be on your list?